So...I realized that my computer is being shared with my ex. how do I remove the shared (just about everything) on here. How can I see if they are getting access to this? ps....I am as new to Mac as a 2 month old baby. I looked at the firewall and it was basically allowing everything under the sun as far as "allow all incoming connections" so I took all of them off hoping that might solve the issue. I see things on firewall like who is listening??? krb5kdc sshd-keygen-wrapper appleVNCServer iTunes AppleFileServer ODSAgent I know NOTHING about this stuff! Also it says "Stealth Mode connection attempt to UDP (and TCP) then a bunch of numbers and then is says "From" and then a bunch of numbers. Any help?