Ok, let go deep on this one... I have been trying to find out how life work but looks like that the penalty for finding out is madness so, only traces can be defined but never the entire piece. I though the chaos theory could be found, I paid a lot of attention to what the Architect said to Neo in The Matrix, even it is a movie it was very well though that argument. The Architech is explaining that there is an order in things but always an small anomally that can be expected. The anomally in life is way bigger, life is like this nebulosa with color, wheigh but no actual shape, still it works perfectly in keeping itself alive. One of the things I have found are the falowed: 1. Sex is one of the most strongest forces biologically and psicologically the "ego" is the other one, spiritually Love is the one that give you that much energy to go a little bit further while Sex can drive you insane sometimes. 2. On the other hand our moods are so chemistry based. Every single feeling has a caused that can be fixed by the correct diet and all of them, ina a healthy body, have an stipulated dead line. I mean, when you feel homesick just wait 3 days and it will be gone. If you feel down in the mrning just eat 2 bananas and in 30 minutes you will be fine. 3. Mental health is a personal responsability. People is responsible for changing and adapting his values or keeping them just the same. There is something called "Free will" and we are all free to choose and decide what path we should take. There are more but those are complex enough I could say. For example, I have been here in the US for about a year, to find a girlfrind is a pain, I learned to spend a lot of time in the computer and forums, the lack of social contact was huge and so on. I go to my country (Venezuela) for vacation in December and in a week I got a girlfriend who is spectacular, I met more people in two weeks than in the US in a year, I didn't spend any time on the internet because people were calling me to go out, I performed twice as a DJ and doing visuals in a concert. Then I came back and the isolation strikes as well the north american way of living fullfiling the emptiness of human contact with technology. I was telling to one of my friends down in Vzla that the US is so advanced and dependent on tv and internet because they have too much free time, back home we all have cellphones and that is it, we spend time with each other way more. But that is just some sort of analisys about cultures and stuff, the point is that undertanding things from some basic principals the way of living can be undertood, always giving a huge space to the unespected because in this world when you thing something is not there you just take a look once again and there it is.