Looking to the community for help....

Discussion in 'Community' started by medea, Apr 1, 2003.

  1. medea macrumors 68030

    medea

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    Ok this is tough for me to say, but my fiancee left me this morning, and in a heinous way as well, I went out to walk the dog this morning as she didnt have time because she was running late for work, so while Im done stairs I see her getting in her car and leaving so I go to go back upstairs and she had locked the door behind her, this was pretty crappy in its own right and I just assumed it was an accident so I went down to the leasing office to get someone to open the door, but apparently they have this rule where they require ID to open an apartment and of course I had none, as well as no money on me to pay the $25 fee! :( so I used the phone in the office and called my mom and even though we have the same last name they still wouldnt do it so I went over to her house until I could get a hold of my fiancee. Anyways, there was no answer at her work and I didnt hear from her until 3 o'clock and I told her what happened, she didnt even seem to care but said she had left it unlocked when she came home for lunch so I should be able to get in now, I replied that she shouldnt have left it unlocked because someone could have walked in and out with all our stuff but I was lucky she did, she just laughed and said "hah, all the stuff, yep..." and hung up. so anyways my mother brought me adn my dog home and I was shocked, almost all of my stuff was gone, my TV and video equipment, movies and music, my furniture, and worst of all my mac :( This day was going bad enough and figured someone actually did steal everything, and then I saw the note on the fridge, she and some friends took everything. she met someone else and doesnt want to hear from me nor did she say where she went, and now I have nothing, Im at my moms house again typing on her HP. :mad:
    I dont know what to do, I dont have enough money to replace everything I owned now, especially my iMac which isnt even a year old. please if anyone can spare some money, please contact me, I have heard about people being able to generate some donations from websites so I thought I would try here first as I dont the means to put up a new site right now. I have a paypal account so if you can help Ill give you the info.
    Thank you guys so much, I know the community here is filled with great people and hope I can get some help, if not though thats ok because the blame doesnt lay on any of you.
    Thanks gang.
     
  2. pantagruel macrumors regular

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    wow media that is harsh, I would say maybe she is just pulling your leg but that is pretty drastic for an aprils fools joke, I cant give anything really, but if people start to chip in I hope you can get back together.
    sorry man:eek:
     
  3. mikulashek macrumors member

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    I think maybe that this is an april fools joke, if so, lol, almost got me man.
    unless this is true in which case bummer, my girlfriend recently left my and took a few things too, not everything though that would suck.
    but this is april fools day, your not going to fool me, the missing eyelikeart was more simple and funny man, dont try to hard next time.:D
     
  4. edesignuk Moderator emeritus

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    mmmm......good point, or is this post an April fools joke to see who will donate money for a sob story, it does sound pretty extreme!
     
  5. Taft macrumors 65816

    Taft

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    Re: Looking to the community for help....

    You need to file a police report ASAP. I know she was your fiance and all, but what she did is not legal. You should get a lawyer and track her down using any legal means.

    This is no time to lie down and take the kick in the balls she just delt you. Fight her inhumane behavior. Fight back!

    Taft
     
  6. medea thread starter macrumors 68030

    medea

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    its getting worse by the minute, she just called and said she has a restraining order against me now, I cant even confront her now to find out why this is all happening. I dont know what to do, my mom thinks I should file a report as well so I think I have to know, I love her but this is ridicoulous.
     
  7. edesignuk Moderator emeritus

    edesignuk

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    hmm...no comment on if this is or isn't an April fools...sneaky...we'll have to see where this goes...:eek:
     
  8. MacFan25 macrumors 68000

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    If this isn't a joke, and you are being serious, then I think that you should file a report. She shouldn't just take all your stuff like that.

    Maybe its a joke, though.
     
  9. g30ffr3y macrumors 6502a

    g30ffr3y

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    thats one evil b1tch man... she doesnt deserve an imac... or to ever see the sun again... unless shes like me in which case she never deserves to be in the dark again... if this april fools... good story!!
     
  10. womanscorned macrumors newbie

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    you bastard, I figured you would end up coming on this site Richard because that is all you ever do, day and nite day and nite going on the mac site, but I didnt expect you to air out our business like that on a public forum, you dirty bastard. well you dont have a mac now do you so what are you going to write about? nothing, because you a no good loser.
    You people have no idea what kind of man he is, I hate you Richard.
    All of the stuff that I "took" I had the right to, we did buy everything together right, only I have all the receipts not you, and the computer is in my name because I registered it hah remember, bet you wish you hadnt let me do that now hey?
    Im so furious at you right now, I'll be in touch with you real soon you bastard.
    your ex!
     
  11. edesignuk Moderator emeritus

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    OUCH!

    edit: could a mod please check the IP's logged for medea and womenscorned, I'd be interested to know if they match ;)
     
  12. wdlove macrumors P6

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    I think it's a April Fool's trick on both sides, only time will tell! ;)
     
  13. pantagruel macrumors regular

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    jesus man, I dont think this is a joke at all. that is so not cool to do that whatever your name is woman scorned, give the man a break, he seems ok on the boards and nice enough, and he was just looking for some support, you shouldnt leave a man your engaged to just because he spends too much time online.
    unless its porn.;)
    ok I shouldnt joke, check your pm media.
     
  14. mcrain macrumors 68000

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    1. Immediately print the post right before mine, that is an admission.

    2. Hire a lawyer.

    3. Subpoeana Arn and get the records to prove that womanscorned is your ex.

    4. Sue.

    5. lather, rince, repeat.

    By the way, what state are you in?
     
  15. vniow macrumors G4

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    ooohh....

    This is going to become the best thread ever!no offence to anyone
     
  16. medea thread starter macrumors 68030

    medea

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    man I cant take this, this is just too much, everything was fine yesterday jessi I just dont understand what happened, please just call me so we can talk or if your that angry just call to let me have it just keep it between me and you, I dont know what I did that is so bad or what yoou think I did but Im so sorry, Im so sorry jessi, if your reading this just please call.
    richard.
    thank you guys for the pms, Im going to figure this out ok, I dont think I need a lawyer yet, but im in florida ok.
     
  17. mcrain macrumors 68000

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    Sorry man, but let me give you a piece of free advice. Don't bother begging and pleading and groveling. It won't work.

    My wife out of the blue did just about the same thing that Jessi did. She won't call, she won't talk it out, she will just dislike you more and more.

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    Sorry for your loss. It's time to move on.
     
  18. King Cobra macrumors 603

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    If this is not a joke, then I have just read the most frightening and upsetting story ever on these boards. And I don't think I will ever read another story on the boards as upsetting as this. :(
     
  19. womanscorned macrumors newbie

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    I cant belive I was going to marry your ass, no Im not going to call you now or ever, its over bub, you ruined it. I do realize that I acted a little fast and I dont want any legal problems over this crap, you are not worth legal fees bastard. so you will be getting a few things back, I think the couch but not the bed, your stereo and music and all of your books, but you are not getting the tv or even going to see the Imac again, maybe youll grow up now without a computer to spend your life on. yeah right, im dreaming. anyways I wont be seeing you Ill have some friends bring it to you in a few days when Im ready. just get over it ok, you lost the best thing you had in your life, but unfortunately your thinking that means the computer you bastard but its me dammit, i was the best thing in your life.
    love
    your ex.
     
  20. Sun Baked macrumors G5

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    Cool, file a police report...

    It's probably enough to go for grand theft.

    Don't settle for anything less than a conviction, and a felony on her record.

    You'd be surprised the problems that'll cause people later in life. ;)

    Plus the monetary damages you can get later when you file a civil suit, and the number of years you can drag people through hell, is just lovely. The number of times you get to garnish wages and seize money in bank accounts, makes it so worthwhile.

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  21. mcrain macrumors 68000

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    By the way your acting, it is clear to all of us that you were certainly the best thing in his life.

    :rolleyes:
     
  22. zimv20 macrumors 601

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    you know those two were made for each other because they capitalize, punctuate, and make spelling and grammar mistakes the same way.
     
  23. Ensign Paris macrumors 68000

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    i don't know if this is a joke but.... :confused:

    listen, right, he seems to love you, and well, I can understand you might not want 2 be with him, and you might have found this easiest, but what is the point in hurting him like this? This is really bitchy, I lost my girlfriend of 5 months the other week, killed me, i couldn't eat for a few days, couldn't and still can't sleep properly and it was horrible, i became a slob, and the pain i experience was more than i have ever felt before in my life.

    Now lucky, her and I r still good friends, but hell, it still hurts, and it probably will do forever, but please don't make it worse for him (it hurt more than any physical pain) and well, give him reasons so he doesn't make this mistake again. Stay friends (if that is possible after what has been said and done)

    (btw, i am still not sure if this is a joke or not :S)

    if this is a joke i am pissed cause it has got be all choacked up about my loss now! she was the best thing in my life, damn it. :(

    Ensign

    EDIT: sorry about the bad spelling, i was rushing, don't like to think about it :(
     
  24. Taft macrumors 65816

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    I was thinking the same thing. Should've aimed for a more high-brow style of writing for your alter-ego, dude.

    To cover my ***...

    And if it is true, I'm deeply sorry for your loss.

    Taft
     
  25. edesignuk Moderator emeritus

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    An interesting point u have there...I still want the IP's checked b4 I believe any of this I'm affraid.
    On any other day of the year I might believe this, but today...not likely!
     

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