Some say AIM some even say just buy an isight. Right now me and my gf(long distance, very hard)use a program called iVisit, and this software just sucks. There is a time limit on the video chat and the voice quality is so bad(it makes us angry because we're like What? WHAT? WHAT!!!) that we just rather type chat. With AIM, I used iChat and she used AIM. But I don't know if she couldn't set the settings right or it is just not compatible. We tried Yahoo messenger but we couldn't even find out how we can voice and video chat with each other Is there any messenger out there simple, fast and free like MSN? Please help us out and let us save $$ on LD phone cards.