Basically I lost my aluminum remote that come with the apple tv 3rd gen and I lost it, so I purchased a brand new white remote which I received today and it wont pair up with my apple tv at all. I have tried pressing just one button but the light on the apple tv doesn't even flicker or change. I find it highly frustrating that I spend money on something that doesn't work. I have tried holding menu and fast forward or even menu and rewind and nothing happens at all. Please help cheers.