Some chick wants me to go bra shopping with her. good or bad? (im straight)

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    One of my friends friends asked me if I wanted to go bra shopping. Is that a Bad thing? or what?




    P.S: Sorry this may seem like i don't have a lot of experience with girls but i have never been asked this.
     
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    I think this is a pretty sure sign of being in the 'friend zone'. So if you ever thought you had a chance with this girl, it's now effectively gone. On the other hand, she does trust you enough as a friend to go underwear shopping with you.
     
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    I think it means you're in the friend zone, but hell, go for it!
     
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    I think the whole 'friend zone' thing depends on how close you are to begin with. He said she's a friend of a friend, so I'm inclined to think she might be hitting on him... or screwing with him. Either way, OP, what would it hurt to go?
     
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    ^ +1

    Either way this would probably be a good flirting opportunity for you. Just leave any stinky trout you may have at home.
     
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    Does she know for a fact that you're not gay? Just making sure.
     
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    Friend zone or not, make sure you grab those suckers... you know, to test the bra's ability to hold those things of course.


    +1 giggity
     
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    Teh Don Ditty

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    You will go bra shopping with her or I will internet punch you in the junk.

    Seriously though, do it.

    DO IT!
     
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    The fact that you're asking means that you don't know the full extension of the relationship between you and her. Going bra shopping can be three or four things in the end; she considers you as a friend, a friend with benefits, flirting with you to see your reaction for relationship, or trying to gain some kind of information from you that may not be for mating reasons or friendship.
     
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    Well it isn't exactly panty shopping, which would be ideal.

    But you gotta take what whatcha can. :D
     
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    She considers you a friend. That's it. But go bra shopping anyway.
     
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    Go. If she pulls the curtain across, and you're on the outside of the changing stall.. then poo..

    If you're on the inside... giggity!
     
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    If she's going to be modeling the bras for him, then she either sees him as COMPLETELY harmless (i.e. gay or way under her league) or she wants him and this is a bold come-on.

    Definitely not a "neutral friend" kind of thing though.
     
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    Do you normally need help in finding the right bra? :D
     
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    The latest iPod Nano should be a staple on this trip.:D
     
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    Oh, and I hate to bring up a potentially sensitive topic, but did she definitely make clear she wanted to go bra shopping, for her?

    (I'm not sexist! Moobies are boobies too, you know..)
     
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    Slap her with a trout and eat her veggies.

    Wait, wrong thread.
     
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    Of course you go, friend zone or not who cares. Maybe even pick some stuff out that you think would look good on her.;)
     
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    Kids these days and their jargon... Back in my day, we'd just ask if she wanted a "coffee", and everyone knew what you meant... :p

    p.s. to the OP, remember those shops can be very brightly lit. I strongly recommend a good pair of shades.
     

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