Is it true that I can't plug the thing into another optical-drive less laptop, like a Toshiba or IBM netbook?
because it requires a special high powered USB port.
This is a false assumption circulating on the net which somehow can't be eradicated.
Obviously Apple has purposely built the MBA SuperDrive in a way to make it incompatible with other devices.
The truth:
http://tnkgrl.wordpress.com/2008/06/24/macbook-air-superdrive-for-all/
Apple's reasoning is a mistery to me.