I've kept up on the last few posts and I'd just like to add my two cents worth about relationships. I'm only 21 years old, so I won't stand here and claim to be the best one to give advice... however, I have been around the block a couple of times (relationship wise) and I think the junior year of college is when the initial maturity curve completes. Girls are interested in different types of guys, but I generally find that many girls would rather date a nice, not so good looking guy than a not nice, pretty boy. I don't really think I'm that good looking, but I guess I've modeled for a few places ...that and I'm somewhat of an outgoing person, so alot of girls are interested in me. While some of them are really really hot, I'm definately not interested in them because they're not on my level of intelligence and to be honest I find them to be materialistic and shallow. I've also found this year that that girls that I like, girls who are beautiful, smart, and nice found it more comfortable to date not good looking, but really nice guys. I hope I don't offend any female readers here by saying this but; many of the woman think of men as shoes... some are high heels, some are beat up old sneakers. While the high heals are pretty to wear, they certainly don't make you feel comfortable. The sneakers might not look that great, but if you had to walk a great distance, you'd certainly want to walk in them. So, if you want my advice, don't even worry about looks; just be that nice, sensitive guy who won't play games, who won't make them feel insecure.