This never happened in MY school...

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  1. jrv3034 macrumors 6502a

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  2. Zeke macrumors 6502

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    But first, any 30 year old doing stuff with a 14 year old can't be hot.

    Also, is it just me or is the fact that her name is Arreola an amazingly funny coincedence (granted spelling is wrong but still very funny).
     
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    So the kids in the oral sex story face expulsion....what happens to them then? Just removing the kids from the school doesn't solve the problem.

    As for the teacher being caught naked with a 14 y.o. - that's just not right.

    And jrv3034 - as a 39 y.o. I know quite a few hot 30 y.o. :D Its all a matter of perspective...

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  5. krimson macrumors 65816

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    Duh, they get removed from school, so they can have fully dysfunctional lives and become proper porn stars when they're old enough. ;)
     
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    Sadly this is being done by teenagers more frequently than parent would like. They were stupid enough to do it in school instead of in private. Teenagers have the idea that oral sex isn't sex, they learned that on TV news. Children are just growing up too fast. In my generation it was spin the bottle and playing doctor. I wonder if Mr. Anderson has had anything like that on his bus? :p We have had two case of teenagers doing oral sex on a bus here in the Boston area.
     
  7. Chip NoVaMac macrumors G3

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    Being 45, 50 year olds are starting to look hot....
     
  8. wdlove macrumors P6

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    Just wait till you get to be 55, then its 60 year olds.........
     
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    I'm going to attempt not thinking about that...
     
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    AHHHHGhhh must purge mind of harmful images æææ慅…
     
  11. MrMacMan macrumors 604

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    This reminds me of my school...

    On a bus in middle school... a girl was giving her boy friend oral... (apparently everyone was fine with that)...

    But somehow someone told... and they had a camera on the bus... :eek: .

    The parents were called...
    Watched the tape...

    They have been expelled...


    So sad... on a frikken bus, what morons.
     
  12. Kid Red macrumors 65816

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    Was she hot tho?
     
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    Would that make the school board guilty of producing and distributing child pornography?
     
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    First Story:

    Does anybody else think that it's an overreaction to expel kids for this kind of stuff??

    Seriously, the kids weren't harming other students (besides each other), and their being in school doesn't hurt anyone else.

    I have to question the kids' judgment (in a middle school bathroom?!?), but what do they accomplish by taking these kids out of school?

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    That's sad. I can kind of understand when teachers get caught with older students (17/18 year old H.S. seniors are, for the most part, sexually mature), but a 30 year old and a 14 year old?


    Unfortunately there's really nothing we can do about problems like this. We do have to trust people sometimes if we want to have a society, and since the people involved in these kind of stories rarely have any record of poor behavior, all we can do is trust and hope for the best. Fortunately, most people/schools are never involved in these kinds of problems (but seeing every one of them on the news sure makes it seem otherwise)
     
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    First story: Kids are stupid, and forming some sort of blow-job line in the school bathroom is wrong in many ways, but expulsion really does seem to be going about it backwards. Yep, take kids who are obviously having some problems out of school, so they'll be even less likely to become productive members of society. How about giving them a good talking to like we'dve gotten at my school? Maybe point out to them that lunch-hour orgies are rather degrading and there are more reasonable ways of exploring your sexuality?

    Oh well, at least oral sex is an improvement over intercourse--kids must be learning something.

    (By the way, why is it the girls always seem to be doing the giving? Juvenile sexisim at work here? I'd be almost as worried about that than a bit of underage hanky panky.)

    Second story: There's always the chance that there's something between two people of greatly different ages, but if you're a 30 year old--a teacher especially--you just don't go at it with a 14 year old, no matter how mature he or she is. My wife is more than 16 years older than I am, but I had the good sense to wait until I was about 18 to pursue her in any sort of romantic way.

    If there's really something between two people, waiting a few years shouldn't make any difference, after all.

    This lady, probably just a pervert, and one with no common sense at that (though if the kid was doing it willingly, rather than being coerced or forced, you can't blame him--30 year olds can be plenty hot no matter what age you are).
     
  16. Chip NoVaMac macrumors G3

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    But is this any different from a GF of mine that met up with a guy at the local McD's. She was 24 at the time, and the guy that came on to her "appeared' to be 19 to 21. Turns out he was just 15! She ended up in therapy over it...
     
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    I don't think this happened in many people's schools!

    now how exactly do these ideas come about? there's got to be a ring leader who found his parent's stash of pornos and got a little bit too happy! as wrong as it is that kid is probably gonna end up somewhere we disapprove of for making it all happen. that one probably watched one too many episodes of boston public.


    Now the teacher and the 14 year old kid is just plain wrong. im still wondering how that one came about.
     
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    If you're talking about this news item, it's obviously different, because the teacher knew full well the kid was 14. Heck, having a relationship with your student even when of legal age is highly questionable, so doing it when it's also illegal and borderline pedophilia is a whole new ballgame. Even assuming the kid did come on to her, there's something wrong with her if she took him up on it.
     
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    Yeah, I've never heard of a few boys lining up in a bathroom to eat a bunch of girls out, if they're going to do such emotionless sex acts like that I demand equality!
     
  20. JamesDPS macrumors regular

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    My two cents: I agree with Makosuke that you can't blame the 14-year old -- at that age, just about ANYTHING can be pretty hot, if I remember correctly ;)

    As for the other thing... wow... kids these days...

    I mean, it's not like this kind of stuff didn't happen in the past -- it's just that we didn't have to hear about it! :D
     
  21. MrMacMan macrumors 604

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    Not really.

    Who would bring charges up?

    The parents against the school for an activity that their children did that would probably force the male child to go jail?
    (The legal system always works that way, legally underage teens do it, and the boy gets charged even tho they are both the same age... wtf)

    :confused:

    vniow -- ...
    Now really, did the girls ask ?

    :p
     
  22. AngryLawnGnome macrumors regular

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    Curious... that kid must feel like a pimp, even though it's wrong.
     
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    you know, you may have something there with the sexism in these cases. The fact that this sort of activity is happening is no surprise-- As wdlove said, kids have been playing doctor for a long time, it's generally thought that children experiment with sex as part of their development. What's scary here is the level of organization... since kids are less naive about certain sexual activities, boys are more likely to begin acting out degrading fantasies on girls. in this case, it's the outnumbering of boys to girls and what was probably coercion to get the girls to service them in an unreciprocated manner. perhaps it reflects a double standard in parenting, that boys are taught to be "masculine" at a young age, and girls are not taught to be strong and independent until later (if at all)...

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  24. Chip NoVaMac macrumors G3

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    It's funny that you mention this. I friend that has a son and daughter years ago had a situation. His boy was caught having sex with a girl. his response was more along the lines "boys will be boys'. His daughter got pregnant after a consensual group sex thing about a year later, and he was was broken hearted that that his flesh and blood would ever do such a thing.
     
  25. MrMacMan macrumors 604

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    haha, maybe he feels like a pimp but no one is my school is...


    If anything the girls in my school are sluts, why wear a tank top (white of coarse) baiscally see through with your bra half stickout out of the top...

    Is that not suppose to provoke hormones? :confused:

    Little confused what emotion girls are trying to play on if its not sex... :eek:
     

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