So Today I received an invite in the mail to my aunt's wedding. Seeing as my parents are divorced, I received an invite, but my Mother did not (it's my father's sister who is getting married). That in itself has caused some issues, but that's besides the point.
My questions is at age 16, should I purchase a gift for the couple, because I received my own invitation? My mother says that I should not, and that purchasing a gift is my father's job. I disagree with her, because I received my own invite, and was not included on my father's invite (he lives halfway across the country). Don't get me wrong, I would prefer to not have to spend money on a gift for my aunt; she's only registered at places like Saks Fifth, Neiman Marcus, Bergdorf Goodman, etc.; and those places are fairly overpriced for my $8.40/hour part-time job, that can barely fill my gas tank as it is without extra expenditures.
So what do I do in this situation?
A) Get her a gift on her registry
B) Don't get her a gift at all
C) Get her a gift, but get something more affordable that is not on her registry
Thanks,
-Don
My questions is at age 16, should I purchase a gift for the couple, because I received my own invitation? My mother says that I should not, and that purchasing a gift is my father's job. I disagree with her, because I received my own invite, and was not included on my father's invite (he lives halfway across the country). Don't get me wrong, I would prefer to not have to spend money on a gift for my aunt; she's only registered at places like Saks Fifth, Neiman Marcus, Bergdorf Goodman, etc.; and those places are fairly overpriced for my $8.40/hour part-time job, that can barely fill my gas tank as it is without extra expenditures.
So what do I do in this situation?
A) Get her a gift on her registry
B) Don't get her a gift at all
C) Get her a gift, but get something more affordable that is not on her registry
Thanks,
-Don