... you're in a happy relationship/marriage, but you see a woman somewhere who is just so ridiculously beautiful that you have a hard time not looking at her? About three months ago I started dating somebody, and everything is going perfectly. It's the best relationship I could have ever hoped for. She's intelligent and sweet and beautiful, and I'm blown away that she's as devoted to me as she is. We're probably going to end up getting married. Yesterday though, at a bus stop, this girl gets off one bus, to wait for another leaving from the same stop, and I seriously had a hard time not looking at her face. I felt really guilty. I didn't say anything to her of course, and I made every effort to not look at her, but the fact that I found her so beautiful made me feel really bad. I guess there are going to still be beautiful women in the world, even though I'm in a great relationship.. should I not feel so guilty? Is it just biology that I don't have control over? There are plenty of good looking women where I work, and it's not like I don't regularly see good looking women, but the reaction I had to this one at the bus stop was different.. as if she may have been my soul mate or something. But I have had that experience before, and generally if I get to know them a bit, and the facade of mystery is gone, I realize that they're just a very good looking person that is not compatible with me. Any thoughts about this kind of thing?