I mean, who cares who your neighbor sleeps with or who gets married for what reason, as long as *you* aren't forced to do it yourself. There are a number of people *I* wish wouldn't reproduce or get married (for the wrong reasons) but I can't do anything about it because I have no right to decide for them, so why do they get the right to decide for me? Where does this privilege to control other people's lives come from? Maybe I'm in the minority, but I grew up and live by respecting the needs and desires of other people just as I expect the same in return. As long as they don't hurt others in the process they're good in my book, and holding them back because I don't like some of their practices is out of my control. There are enough rich people that lie and cheat their way to more fortune, straight people with sinful secret lives that want gay people gone and religious people who think their antiquated way of life has to be applied to the rest of the world. What makes *them* think what they do is right and everybody else can suck it (for the lack of a better term)? Maybe I already know the answers but I'm still curious to hear both sides, so even the conservative or religious posters (who'd rather I marry a woman and have a dozen children) can leave their thoughts. I won't flame or bitch and I encourage others to keep their cool as well!!! I just want to know the where, the why and the how.