I live in a very small town, and had first love/hs sweetheart at 18. We used protection but were not experienced. Shortly after, I went off to college, saw her a few months later, then once again a few years later. I am Asian and she is white of German/English descent. Now, a more than a quarter of a century later, I am in law school and buddy up with two others to join a law school group. One guy, age 26, is Eurasian, born in my small town but raised in Yugoslavia, and then went to hs here in the states and recently finished UCLA a couple years back. We get along famously. Then I confess I may have got a girl pregnant way back when. Then he tells me he was born in my small town and wasn't raised by real parents. He cried, and it was awkward. Today I meet his so called father from Bosnia. What do I say? What do I do, and there is no direct evidence, just very convincing circumstantial evidence which both of us know having studied together for criminal law midterms and torts midterms. I am at a loss for words. To me and my wife, he is already like our son so whether he is or not, he's family if you know what I mean.