Is it just me? Or does anyone else feel awkward around Christmas or other family get togethers? The thing that makes it awkward for me is I just turned 30, and rude relatives ask things like "Why don't you have a girlfriend" or "Why aren't you married?" I generally reply with a "Oh well I haven't had time to buy a girlfriend at Walmart yet." or "I'll get married as soon as they legalize gay marriage in Pennsylvania" (I'm not gay but the look on their faces are PRICELESS when I say that because a lot of them are "backwards thinking" so to speak.) Fortunately those responses do get the point across that its a rude question (in my opinion) to ask someone. Aside from rude relatives questions about my personal life, even my immediate family is weird with me. They act like its a special occasion when I'm around (I was overseas for 4 years but that ended a year and 3 months ago) and the fact that they act different makes me even more uncomfortable to the point where I don't even want to go around them. I DREAD family dinners because the attention always turns to me and it shouldn't. I'm boring and have nothing in common with any of them. Who knows maybe I'm just weird but does anyone else feel this way around family get togethers?