Similar issue here, it seems.
I purchased a new iPhone 11 and successfully connected it to my car's bluetooth system (2014 Chrysler with UConnect). Today, when I started the car, the phone would not connect via bluetooth (either the phone or the music player).
Tried turning everything off and back on. Removed the device from the car and phone systems, and attempted to re-pair. Now it won't even pair. The car's unit enters pairing mode, but the phone won't see it or list it in the Bluetooth screen under "other devices".
I've confirmed that all other connected Bluetooth devices work just fine with the phone (speaker, earbuds, Watch, etc...). Seems to just be the car system that is problematic.
If anyone finds the fix, I'd sure be appreciative!
[automerge]1570301660[/automerge]
BTW - anyone tried resetting Network Settings?