Thought I would share this latest news, since you all have been so supportive in the past year with my issues with my ex and I. Just when I thought that life was getting back to normal, the man "upstairs" has put another thing in front of me. When my ex left for Florida, I was concerned how he was going to make it - since he had been out of a job and had no money saved. Well the answer came in the mail - a late forward from the Post Office of my June Visa statement. Some how my ex got a hold of my credit card number and had the card cloned (cloned, only because the card I have in my hands is the only one sent by the card company since the old one expired. And that some of the charges are with an actual card, not just a phone in order). He has hit me to the tune of over $3000 (final totals will be known in a few days). When he left for Florida I expressed concern on how he was going to make down there without any real money. He responded that he was "resourceful". I was worried when his mom and I "tricked" him in coming back home from being "homeless" in Florida for a week and half. Come to find out he was not homeless, for he had my credit card. And that food and gas were no problem because of my credit card. I wondered as to why Sprint had not cut off his cell phone for non-payment - you guessed it - my credit card. Shame of the turn of events is that I had to agree to help in any way possible the credit card company to prosecute my ex for this fraud. I say shame, for my ex is terminally ill I found out. And despite the lies and all over the last 12 years, I wanted to believe in the good person that I met. For the Christian believer in me, wanted his possibly (I was taught to believe in miracles) last year of life to be as peace filled as possible. Now it may be spent in jail awaiting trial. His arrest will be hard on him physically. I find myself tortured, only because I had forgiven him for the $14K in his credit card debt that I paid off with equity in my home. And forgiven him for the $6K in debt from the same loan to cover his portion of living expenses for the past year. And in the end forced me to decide to sell my TH in order to get my debt under control. Thanks all for letting me have a moment here. Not quite sure of how I am to be feeling at this point. My own personal good and evil side are doing battle with each other. I posted this as a warning to others in a roommate or other relationship situation. You never truly know a person I have found out.