So in the past week I've had a crap load of stuff going on. Last sunday I travelled from Wisconsin to LA for a job interview with 3M on Monday and returned that day. When I came home I found out my fiancé has basically given up on our relationship and wants some space to figure her own life out, without me. I spent most the week helping her get to graduation on thursday, her birthday on friday and through the weekend in one piece. I was under the impression she just needed a little space last week wanted to do whatever for a few days. Then I noticed she stopped wearing her engagement ring. It really came to a head for me when she started lying about it and saying she forgot the ring instead of telling me she was done. Now last night I finally called her on it and she wouldn't tell me we can keep trying so I know she's completely given up. Here's where it gets interesting. She just graduated, so no job. She has no car, and no drivers license (doctor took it away because of vision). She has little to no money that I'm aware of and I own literally everything of ours. I've been paying the rent along for at least 18 months, bought almost all the furniture and what not in the house, and have been paying for food any other crap for a majority of the last year. I don't really want to be the one to give up but I feel like she needs a reality check and its time to just send her on her way to figure this out. Part of me really cares where she goes and how she does and the other part says ***** it. She's being selfish so now I get to be, so kick her out and move on with your life. This is a terrible situation but I need to figure out the right course of action. Can anybody weigh in here?