I am a closet atheist. I have been for years and my girlfriend (hopefully to be my wife) is the only person I have confided in. She is not the most religious person but says she feels like it is a good thing and feels better after going to church. I go along to church and say empty words as my mother is deeply religious. Living away from home for the past few years has made it easier, but the subject comes up often on trips home. I don't want internal strife within the family, but is it wrong or harmful to harbor this?