I had the white for about 3 months. I changed from a black iPhone 4 to a white iPhone 5 because I wanted a change. But I don' think the white is me. It looks feminine. And yes debate all you want, it is a feminine phone. I am female btw, I'm not a tomboy but in the same token I have never really indulged in super feminine stuff. I don't carry a purse, I carry a bag. I wear AE jeans and golf shirts, and my idea of sexy shoes are my brown leather doctor martin boots. I think phones are an accessory just like how a bag or a purse is. And we generally pick our accessories to match our personality. I never realized how much a phone can actually depict who you are. So Space Grey it is Calling my store tomorrow to switch my reservation! Just thought I would share.