So. I am a female, college freshman. And I am lonely. I have never had a boyfriend or "been in a relationship" or however you would like to say it. In fact, I have been asked out a total of three times. The first time was by a friend...a mentally challenged friend. Awkward. The second time was by an overweight 26 year old who is bipolar and struggles with depression. And the third time was by a 42 year old. And it's like hell, what in the world is wrong here?? By all appearances it would seem I'm extremely dateable. I'm blonde, big blue eyes, 5'3", 127 lbs, feminine. I'm musical, was honor roll all through high school, valedictorian, happy person. It's not like I have issues with guys, either. I have lots of guy friends who I love hanging out with. I often prefer them to girls...they're just more fun. But I always end up being their friend instead of their girlfriend. I'm the one they always come to with the girl troubles. "Amy's mad at me because ___, now what do I do?" "What should I get Clarice for her birthday?" that kind of thing. Just looking for some perspective, and whatever advice you may have cheers.