Over the past few years, my wife has been going to church A LOT. Her radio is preset to all the religious channels. So, what has happened is, the loving church has changed my once happy and loving wife into a hateful and bitter Christian. She had gay and lesbian friends in the past, but now, when she hears someone on the radio saying that gays shouldn't be allowed to do this or that, she nods in agreement. We used to talk over politics before an election, and agree on who we'd vote for. This year, we agreed to vote for someone because we both didn't really like his two opponents. But then, right before the election, we get a card in the mail telling how the other guy will destroy our military by allowing gays to join. So, she voted for the ultra conservative based on that. (If she no longer wants to vote together, that's fine. It just irks me that a little gay bashing changed her mind so quickly.) My wife has become a very simple-minded, 1950's style church-wife. When we were in high school, she was a member of Future Business Leaders of America. But, before becoming a businesswoman, she wanted to serve a couple of years in the National Guard. Now, after a few years of church, she has told me these things: "I don't think a woman should be president. We can't handle a job that big." and "Woman aren't suited for the military." Her church has convinced her to discriminate against herself!!! But, that's not the issue here. I am getting sick of her homophobia. We have children, we had them before her deciding to join a group to tell her what to think, and I don't not want them raised like this. I was looking through the history on Safari, and found where she'd been searching for stuff about God and Gays. Of course, she got to read all these verses telling how god despises homosexuality more than other sins. Now, I'm not sure everything in the Bible is true just because it is there. I mean, it's a book. I can write a book, and probably a much easier to read book than the Bible! But, she does consider it all to be true. So, she will always beleive in sin, Hell, the devil, and that gays are the worst sinners and will go to Hell. One thing I would like to do is change my homepage, so when she opens the Safari she will see something from a homosexuals point of view. I don't want a radical, extreme left, feminist website. I want something that will remind her that these people are human beings, not much different than her. I don't want people burning US flags or anything like that. Someone one here once posted the simple statement "Some of us want nothing more than to marry the person we love." My God, I may be emotionally detached, but that almost made me cry. That is what I am looking for. I want my wife to see how mean and hurtful it is to hate people simply because of who they love. Could someone please suggest some websites. They don't even have to be for some organization. Some gay or lesbians personal web page will do, if it will show my wife that they are people with feelings, too.