I know this is really old but I'm hoping you found a solution to the problem as I'm in exactly the same boat. In Library I only have the following folders.
AddressBook
Cookies
Keyboard
Lockdown
Preferences
You aren't in the root directory if you don't see a Library folder. You're probably in user directory.
It's in /Library/Themes![]()
As you have the exact same problem i'm surprised you didn't follow the advice that has already been given.
Yes, I would have been surprised too if I hadn't followed the advice, but as the list was from what is inside the root - library folder then I would like to know why the themes, ringtones folders are missing and how I get to them.
Thanks
You are in var/root/library , which is not correct, like /user/library or /mobile/library or any other library folder that isn't /LIBRARYIt's in /Library/Themes![]()
Gosh, i am surprised you STILL haven't followed the advice. Your are NOT in the correct library folder, you are navigating to it incorrectly and there isn't any more advice people can give you.
It is in /library/themes...or like the general put it in the second post
You are in var/root/library , which is not correct, like /user/library or /mobile/library or any other library folder that isn't /LIBRARY
OK getting closer, now have library and there is what seems to be a shortcut to themes but it says "Directory Not Found" when I click on it.
you have Winterboard installed right?;-) The shorcut takes me to /Var/stash/Themes.ib009 so check there to see if you can see it.