I have a problem that is the exact opposite of what glocke12 has. I have PLENTY of free time, but barely any social life. My mom just bitched me out about it, because she's a social butterfly who goes out any chance she can. I feel like i'm a bit anti-social. I work at a gym and go to community college. But here's the crazy thing, when i'm actually at work or at school i'm very social, i talk to everyone and i would say i'm pretty well liked by most people who meet me. When it comes to going out with these people outside of school or work, i just don't put forth the effort. So basically i have no one to go out to dinner or a movie with ever. My best friend lives in long island and i live in NJ, about 1.5 hours away and he lives with his gf, so i see him twice a month at most. Another problem this situation is creating for me is that i can't get a girlfriend this way. I'm a friendly and good looking (so i'm told) kid, but i don't let myself out of my bedroom. Here i am, 5:35 on a saturday, my mom just went out, and i'm home alone laying in bed with my dog typing this. Story of my life. What's wrong with me? Do you guys have any suggestions for me?