So me and this guy, weve known each other for a few years now. Were pretty close and I love him dearly as a friend but honestly, I just dont see him in a romantic way. In fact, I just dont want to date anyone right now. Im pretty sure he knows this too, thats why he hasnt asked me out or made a move, but its still kind of awkward/uncomfortable knowing that he likes me. And I value him as a friend so I dont want to ruin/make things awkward by telling him upfront. He hasn't told me that he liked me yet. He's close to one of my friends and he tells her everything and through her, I know what's going on in his mind. He basically has the same mindset as me -- He's afraid that confessing to me will scare me away.