I left a written message at the ground of my housemate's door concerning the annoyance of his long time mid-night chit chat habbit on phone. I ask him to stop doing that or doing somewhere I can’t hear his voice which got me really mad. I got back home from studying. The message was still left where I left. I knew he had read it. Coz he is just gone out. He is one of my best mate who has much common with me. But not so much common dealing with problems and how reslove it. He is not a personal can talking about problems and conflicts just like last time I talk to him about ther other annoyance he got to me and the conversation went really bad that we ended up no talking. I care this housemateship and friendship, I had re-written the message 3 time being worry too emotional and not-friend like. So what is he telling me? what should I do? [two days after] So today i went to his room and talked to him [He and I have been busy lately], but at first, he seemed didn’t know what had been between he and me. I said the mid-night calling someone is not good. He wasn't looked happy but a bit pain in his face. He was like... I make phone calls a lots of times. [He didn’t know what am talking about]. I said something like 'No, you can call anyone you like'. Then he said i will not call many phone call next few days. I said it has been mid-night, it bothers me. Then he kept said sorry, [I didn’t go for his apology], then I said no one should tell you what to do, and it is your freedom..., he turned around he kept said sorry as watching his computer screen and let his back facing to me, it was kind of rude. Then I finished the conversation. I came out, i dont feel clear about whether it was solved and ok but got ton of his apology. Neither feel i am gonna talk about this stuff again. It wasn’t the first impression that he is kinda of closeness person. One thing to clarify, I am from China and the same as he. We both study in UK. In the house we use our language to communicate.