Never know what you have until...

So are you saying then that your thoughts and actions are conducted at an impulsive level and by doing that you mercifully free yourself from the ravages of responsibilities that would otherwise be the key attributies to the direction of your existance?

Or are you saying that your a bit grumpy cos she's found someone better than you?

 

Yeah, that's a bummer that one. But don't dwell, you're a bigger person for admitting how dumb you've been. And that's cool. I've lost a fair number of people but have absolutely nil regrets about being with the lass I'm with today. Hang ups are for schmucks:

I was chatting to a lady who works at a different location to myself about tattoos. I said that the shear permanency of them is something that people who have them don't really comprehend. She said that she had a permanent one on the base of her spine, a pattern about 7 inches wide and 3 tall, so pretty significant. I asked her what made her decide to have it and she said it was as rebellion to a guy from a relationship she had that went wrong. So if she marries someone, when they are 80 he is still going to be reminded of the guy that she fell out with when she was 23 every time he sees her butt.

Never EVER do anything like that. It'll make you look a real case of bitter tragedy for the rest of your life.

 

Much like someone getting a tatoo of there lady friend's name on there arm

 

"only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone."​

- Pablo Picasso​

 

crap. i've got a lot to do today, in that case. and it's already quarter past 10!

 

To be fair that seems to be the thinking of most people in the states currently suing somebody...

As for the situation at hand; I would use it as a life lesson like many have suggested. I also suggest that if you value the friendship you can't let her current relationship with another guy eat at you. Either tell her how you feel or back off. Just don't sit there secretly pining for her.

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Don't be too hard on your self Krizoitz. You were just being cautious. It may work out for both of you in the future. Just be patient. If she is not the one, then the next one may even be better.

 

nevertheless, it sucks. And I'm on a linear trajectory to be in the exact same position soon.

AWESOME!

 

Once I die, I'll no longer care. So putting stuff off is great.

Remember everythng you do will amount to nothing.

 

How arrogant & lazy is that? The point is to illustrate that one should take life by storm & do the things matter most, rather than do nothing.

Your comment paints a negative portrait of what u stand for & your attitude.

 

I certainly hope that you are just joking. Otherwise you should talk to someone that you trust. A life is a precious thing.

 

As always, optimism is life's greatest gift. Thanks for using it!

Anyway, this one gave me a good laugh, but I do certainly hope you're kidding. I'm going to assume you are.