Hi there, I am not in the least tech savvy. My boyfriend is but hence the problem. A little background: about 3 weeks ago my boyfriend was loading some music on to my phone and apparently he backed up all of the files onto my computer and then emailed himself a copy of my texts. However, he told me that after syncing that my phone that he got a text from me that was like 30 pages long and it was just code. so he said he emailed the texts to himself (which I didnt even know you could do) and put them in a file and then had a program to unencrypt it and he read my texts. And that it happened to him before and its because I was signed in under his account. Which is no biggie but, the fact that he lied to me (I think) with all the file moving around and how he got the texts bothers me. So I have a few questions to see if I can understand. 1. Could he have put something on my phone to copy all the texts that are on there, even the deleted ones and have it sent to his phone when I sync? 2. If I synced on a whole different computer would it save all my texts on that computer and not on my itunes account? 3. is there a way texts can just be totally deleted without syncing? 4. when the phone syncs does it pull all the text messages in my phone off and put them in the computer? 5. What if I just did an erase all content and restore setting would that erase the texts .... I know this is basic stuff, but i am just have no clue about this stuff ... Hell Im surprised I even found this forum!! But Thnks in advance for the help!