OK, we have been kicked-out of How Should I Propose, so let's expand on the suggested "list" of personal questions that have no place on a public forum. For me, it's any question that requires way more personal data then the OP has given, or may even be able to give. Such threads are a flailing in the dark kind of thing, and a total waste of time. As to that thread, let me just say: "proposing before thousands" - drama Queen; "posting a thread asking how" - . Anyone else, before this ends up in the Wasteland??