sorry this is a self pity rant. my birthday is tomorrow and since my g/f and i have a class tuesday thru thursday evenings and she is working all day tomorrow we decided to celebrate today. we were supposed to go to a movie and then she was going to make me dinner. the movie was going to be at 5. turns out she is really busy at work and isn't able to leave until later, so she stops by her house and gets the stuff together and brings it over. i can tell she is in a bad mood and we already talked about postponing the movie event. so i try to make her feel comfortable and talk to her about what is bothering her and say we can see the movie another time b/c that will cut down on the amount of things to do tonite. she ends up being really upset and i'm trying to talk to her about what is wrong and to keep it short we get in an argument and now she has left and might come back later but i feel really ****ty now. i just was trying to talk to her about her stressful day and life to help her vent stuff and she just got mad at me about it. maybe i'm stupid or something but she told me before she left that the best thing i could have done would have been to give her her space and i should have known that by now. this is somewhat of a recurring theme, whenever we try to do anything it always gets messed up. i'm hungry, i'm sad, i'm mad, i'm generally upset and having a crappy time right now and i wish it would get better but i don't know. end rant.