Serious. I don't know how this is viewed by the gay community. If you are not gay, I would ask that you reserve your posts until some of our gay members can respond. I really would like to hear their comments on this because it directly effects them, not so much gay supporters. I was at lunch today and there were some young kids sitting there and talking about current events and one of the things was the topic of all the goings on with the supreme court right now. On of the girls turned to me and said (and i'm trying to get the quote as close as it was asked to me) "Mr. S...got a question for you. Can a person be like anti-gay....I mean think that it is morally wrong or whatever...I mean not like hate them or anything but not agree with their lifestyle.....but still be pro-gay rights like think they should get the same tax breaks and insurance coverage and all that like regular normal married people do?" I thought it was a good question and actually pretty deep for a high school kid being that she was trying to balance her personal beliefs...I can't say religious because I have not known her to be overly religious....with what she thought was something more social. Not sure if I am wording that quite right. I can't find the right words to covey my thoughts there. So...is it acceptable to be anti-gay but pro-gay at the same time?