This thread was very helpful to me. I have been struggling for 2 days to get the last remnants of iTunes removed from my iMac. DRM is evil, and by stopping "iTunes Helper," I was able to fully empty the trash after restarting. I don't own an iPod because I refuse to let Apple dictate my choices. I would no more voluntarily put iTunes on a machine than I would put a "governor" on my car to keep me from going over 65 mph. I'm so mad, I'm writing this on my XP laptop.
I've moved from Windows to the Mac in the last year, as the wiser choice of two evils. I resent anyone trying to dictate what I do with my precious collection of MP3's. After buying songs on vinyl, and then buying them again on CD, I don't care what the lawyers say: I OWN THEM! They are mine to listen to at any time, and to hell with "applications" that try to seize control. All I want is to copy a few of them to my Panasonic MP3 player, or play them occasionally on a computer (Quicktime will do).
Just because I play something once, does not mean I want it copied anywhere other than the external hard drive where it resides! I am glad to be free of iTunes entirely, and I thank you.