I'm taking a time to think about how to make a relationship between men and women better as a couple. One of the many things to talk about is what men really like about women. Men like different things in different levels and women give importance to some other things. Now, one thing is to find the balance and another thing is to understand what the other person wants from us. Today I had a discussion with my girlfriend, she couldn't understand my problem because of the problem itself... for me the brain is sexy too. Of course she doesn't get it yet but when one is young and you are building your life from zero there are many things to consider before the bottle of wine or the weekend in a remote island of the Caribbean. We men like girls with tridimensional minds, I realize that (and this may be very cultural) some women thinks that love is a service, like having the breakfast ready for you or cleaning the room for you, etc. For me is sexy too to see a pretty student that works at same time and is good doing both. I just wanted to point that out because some people may be facing the same situation. As one teacher told me once: in a relationship both partners have to be compatible psychologically, sexually, culturally, socially and some other things. Those are a few things to consider when choosing a partner, of course all of this takes time to find out but my bet is that there wouldn't be as many divorces if people will know with time what to expect from each other and how the environment can chance those relationships. When the economics are going down is necessary to understand that romance is not a need. One thing is love and another one is sex and romance. Love have so many faces and evolve and change, it grows and get small, some times is invisible or transparent, love mutate and we have to be prepare for that. Those are my 2 cents.