What are some of the better ways on how to deal with a driver with road rage?

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  1. puertorioninja5 macrumors newbie

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    I recently just got my license, but have actually been driving for well over 2 years now (I'm 17) and around the metro area for Huntsville, AL, I consistently travel on Highway 231/431 aka Memorial Parkway, most likely the busiest road in the entire state if not I-65 in Birmingham.

    Well I recently just came back after a 3-night tour of Nashville, TN and driving around Nashville compared to Huntsville is just a night and day experience even with the increased traffic, even on the Interstates! On the Parkway in Huntsville, 8 times out of 10, I encounter someone who constantly cuts me off and oh trust me, they hear about it haha. People constantly ride up on my ass in Huntsville, they always switch lanes without using their indicators, and one time when I honked my horn, a guy tailgated me for miles and pulled up beside me and threw beer cans at my car while shouting at me. I've driven on highways all over Alabama and Tennessee and it constantly baffles me that people lack common knowledge about driving, especially on major roadways.

    I'm a guy that is always calm but a little aggressive on the road, but it got me thinking - what are some good ways to deal with another driver with road rage? What are some ways to deal with an angry driver without having to break into a fight?
     
  2. Shrink macrumors G3

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    Only one way to deal with guys like that...get up in their face, especially if they have a weapon.

    They'll always back down, don't worry!

    Trust me...

    Really...



    :rolleyes:
     
  3. rick snagwell macrumors 68040

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    i have had a little road rage in the past, and the thing that makes it worse IMO is too ignore it. i hate it and it drives me more crazy. i would suggest getting off the freeway or turn on the next street. and of course if you are being followed...have LE intervene.
     
  4. SandboxGeneral Moderator

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    Probably best to just pull off to the side and let them go around. Don't engage their aggressive behavior with more aggressive behavior.
     
  5. jknight8907 macrumors 6502a

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    A good start would be to lay off the horn. Just let them go about their business, whether they cut you off or not. Honking or 'gesturing' at them is what causes the rage. Otherwise they would just keep on rolling.
     
  6. Shrink macrumors G3

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    Wait...where did this sensible and reasonable guy come from!:eek:
     
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    From the Great Lakes State of course! [​IMG]
     

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  8. Shrink macrumors G3

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    Gosh, and I thought you must be a Boston driver!
     
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    Or I could have been from Baaaston!
     
  10. Shrink macrumors G3

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    Must be...talks like a native!
     
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    Not to be confused with a NY accent: Bawston. #
     
  12. mobilehaathi macrumors G3

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    The Milkor M32A1 will solve any problem with simplicity.
     

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    Very nice. However, I'd prefer to do it style!
     

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  14. Gutwrench macrumors 65816

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    People need to realize everyone on the roadway is trying to get somewhere...just not as fast as me.
     
  15. Shrink macrumors G3

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    Oh, you aggressive boys.:p

    Much more effective, really says it all...

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  16. firedept macrumors 603

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    There really is no definitive answer to your question. You can try to avoid it at all cost which is probably the best thing to do, but there is always going to be that one a$$ that is going to follow and take it to the next level.

    Having been a firefighter for 10 years and currently a part-time EMT, I see the end result of road rage to many times. And it is usually not good. Either for the raging party or the receiver.

    If I make a mistake driving, say accidentally cutting someone off, I am the first to apologize to the other driver. This usually diffuses a situation pretty quick no matter how much you have pi$$ed that other driver off. If they are the offender, I just leave it be, thinking to myself what an a$$ they are and one day I may be the EMT standing over them with their life depending on me.

    Best advice I can offer, drive carefully, avoid confrontation, apologize even if it is not your fault. If someone tries to confront you, try to leave the area. Road rage usually never ends well.
     
  17. thedeejay macrumors 65816

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    On topic ple...just kidding don't kill me :p

    What firedept stated is a great idea. I actually do the opposite but I think it requires extreme patience and is not really a great idea either. Say someone is tailgaiting me or trying to piss me off I just slow down even further which could be bad because it could piss them off even more. In most cases they eventually overtake me after which I say "eh" and drive on :)
     
  18. alent1234 macrumors 603

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    i see it in NYC too many times

    just ignore it and in five minutes you will probably forget about it
     
  19. Synchromesh macrumors 6502a

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    I drove in Boston for many years and can confirm - horrible drivers. SF was a breath of fresh air after that. In Boston, however, weapons are a rarity. Chances that someone will pull a piece out over road rage are pretty slim. In the South where OP drives I bet chances are much higher so I'd be careful about yelling at people. A drunk redneck with a shotgun is nobody's friend.
     
  20. Roller macrumors 68020

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    I agree with this. You never know when you're going to run across a driver who'll take it to the next level and follow you until you get out of your car, pull out a gun, or whatever. Like the OP, I find that drivers here in Birmingham (AL, not UK) rarely signal lane changes and sometimes not even turns, but they're not particularly aggressive. Like most places, we have our share of tailgaters - I just make sure I move over and let them pass, if I can. Nothing more satisfying than seeing them pulled over by a cop down the road. :)
     
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    Drive as fast as you can so they can't catch you. :p
     
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    I've been driving almost 30 years now and rarely get the rage driver, I'm never that guy. Here's how I do it.
    1) Keep a very large following distance. Seriously, being one inch from someones taillights or 300 feet really doesn't change your arrival time.
    2) Drive 5 miles over the speed limit, exactly. DO NOT allow your speed to vary. This minor detail leads to most problems. If you constantly change speed due to inattentive driving it makes it more difficult for everyone else to anticipate your actions.
    3) Don't honk. You don't YELL at slow or annoying strollers at the mall do you? Would it solve anything if someone honked at you?
    4) Stay out of speeders way. They've spent an entire life surviving on poor decisions, you are not their life coach; plus they need to get to MacDonald's to make sure your coffee is ready.

    Me: CDL A, EVOC, TacDriving
     
  25. mr99 macrumors 6502a

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    I couldn't agree more with this post.
     

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