OK, here's the scenario: I've been dating this girl for about a month and a half now... everything seemed to be going well, we have quite a lot in common, and I thought we had sort of a connection. So we went together, along with some friends of hers, to a steeplechase (horse racing event) this past Saturday. Since I have an SUV, I drove... she rode with me, along with another couple. So far, so good. But near the end of the day, she totally ditched me and started hanging out with this guy from the car next to ours. After the horse racing, there was dancing at the main tent, about 1/4 mile away... but rather than drive with us to the tent (it had been raining), she walked to the tent with this guy. And when it was time to go, she stayed behind (a friend of hers who had driven separately was still there, so I assume she went home with her). The question: Should I even bother trying to continue things with her, or should I just cut her loose? It seems to me that ditching the person you went to an event with is just plain wrong, and I know I've been wronged. I haven't spoken to her or e-mailed her all week, and her one e-mail to me (on Tuesday) made no mention of what happened on Saturday. Everyone I've consulted so far has said that I should just let her go, since anyone who behaves that way isn't worth seeing... but I want to get more feedback before I make my final decision.