What to do if you think your girlfriend dont love you anymore?

Discussion in 'Community Discussion' started by Hpye, Dec 2, 2012.

  1. Hpye, Dec 2, 2012
    Last edited: Dec 2, 2012

    Hpye macrumors 6502

    Oct 11, 2011
    I asked her do you still love me and she say, I love you of course (with an annoying voice, like i was forcing her to say I love you to me)..., i can feel in my gut that there is something wrong with her behavior lately and and i can also feel she does not love me as much as before. What to do, i still love her.
  2. thewitt macrumors 68020


    Sep 13, 2011
    Tell her how you feel. If she has moved on, there is no point in you sticking around.
  3. andalusia macrumors 68030


    Apr 10, 2009
    Manchester, UK
  4. Huntn macrumors P6


    May 5, 2008
    The Misty Mountains
    The person with the least interest in the relationship controls it. Don't become needy or you may just push her away.
  5. leenak macrumors 68020

    Mar 10, 2011
    It'd be nice if love was the only thing required to keep a relationship together. It takes work, from both parties.

    If you think there is something wrong, it may not be love, it could be something else. The best person to talk with about these issues is your girlfriend.
  6. BigPrince macrumors 68020

    Dec 27, 2006
  7. Hpye thread starter macrumors 6502

    Oct 11, 2011
  8. toiyeuvietnam macrumors newbie

    Dec 13, 2012
    :confused::confused::confused::confused: please help me!really i so sad when obout a few day ago she said"Maybe we should breakup" i know she still love me .we are learning the same in the univesity , and the same class.i loved her so long time! about 2 year . :) ,it s great feeling.but suddenly she said them.what is cause!why !i think can she had a crush on crush with other guys.but...what must me doing !please give to me some your advide?
    Than:(:(:(:(:(ks everyone
  9. SkyBell macrumors 604


    Sep 7, 2006
    Texas, unfortunately.
    Talk. To. Her.

    I swear, what is it with guys and trying to solve relationship issues without even consulting their girlfriend/wife/whatever? I'm not the authority on relationships, but I can tell you this; if there is something wrong and that is bothering us, most likely we do want to work it out and talk with you about it; we just feel like it would probably be a waste of time. At least in my experience, when a guy wants "to talk" about a relationship issue, what he actually means is, "I'm going to talk, and you're going to listen and agree with me." This is not how it should go.

    If you really care, and you really want to do something about it; ask her to talk. You may have to coax her a little, gently of course. If you can get her to agree to this, you've already got your foot in the door (probably). You can explain your feelings and thoughts on the matter, but be damn sure you're telling the absolute truth, and not just what you think she wants to hear. Also make sure to listen to her thoughts as well, and take them into consideration, even if they directly contradict yours. Be willing to compromise, and if you make any promises or changes, you had better intend to stick with them; we tend to remember your exact words quite well. ;)

    Sometimes, an unstoppable force meets an immovable object. Sometimes, you can't fix everything. Sometimes, these things don't work out, no matter how hard you try. If possible in this situation, it's nice to remain on amicable terms, but if this isn't going to happen; cut your losses, and move on. You need to have a good head on your shoulders, enough at least to understand when an uphill battle becomes a lost cause. There's no sense in chasing someone who doesn't want you, because it will only cause more hard feelings and heartache in the end.

    Again, I'm no relationship expert. But I am female, and I hope I've provided a little bit of "insider information" (though it really should be common knowledge, honestly) to help you out a bit. Good luck.
  10. Puevlo macrumors 6502a

    Oct 21, 2011
  11. Chundles macrumors G4


    Jul 4, 2005
    Yep. Easiest way to make it stick.
  12. DollaTwentyFive macrumors 6502a

    Nov 11, 2010
    Parts Unknown
  13. toiyeuvietnam macrumors newbie

    Dec 13, 2012

    Thanks you.i did done it.but ..... so sad.i will agree with her idea!breakup? goodbye my love!!!!!!:confused::confused::confused:


    maybe !but do you know ,,,,she also love me so much!a true love!!!!but seem ....:(:(:(:(,i will try it
    Thanks so much
  14. sviato macrumors 68020


    Oct 27, 2010
    HR 9038 A
    She's with me now, sorry dude we were gonna tell you!
  15. duneriderltr450 macrumors 6502


    Sep 20, 2012
    Go clear your mind at a strip club.
  16. ChrisMan287 macrumors 6502


    Nov 18, 2012
  17. lwood1 macrumors 6502

    Aug 2, 2008
    Just keep treating her right and everything will work out like it should
  18. Zombie Acorn macrumors 65816

    Zombie Acorn

    Feb 2, 2009
    Toronto, Ontario
  19. obeygiant macrumors 68040


    Jan 14, 2002
    totally cool
    i read all your posts in Peter Griffins voice..... lol
  20. TSE macrumors 68030

    Jun 25, 2007
    St. Paul, Minnesota
  21. FlatlinerG macrumors 6502a


    Dec 21, 2011
    Ontario, Canada

    This is why you should always ask for help in an online forum. :p
  22. OnceYouGoMac macrumors 6502

    Aug 14, 2012
    In front of my Mac
    And one full of Mac geeks at that :D
  23. Littleman macrumors regular


    Mar 5, 2008
    Don't forget the parties! Put a bit of fun back into it.
  24. rei101 macrumors 6502a

    Dec 24, 2011
    As a 37 year old I am.

    Put your pants on, the "needy" roll is for the girls. If you act needy, they will look for man.

    Assume your position, do not call her. When she does just be short into words. The rolls will change, you will see.

    Then tell her: "You" what do you want? are you bored? do you want to date other people? I do not want to waste my time chasing someone who is not interested in me.

    And in fact, drill this into your brain: DO NOT CHASE PEOPLE WHO DOES NOT LOVE YOU.

    In relationships there are times when things have to be put into place again. Never lose your integrity, NEVER! Forget about scarifying yourself for someone who is not responding, they are functioning as spiritual vampires who are vandalizing your heart.

    Use your mind to cover yourself against that. She will consider your attitude as a turn on if you do it short and precise, that is what a man do.

    If she does not respond and she wants to go her way, let her be, you are not guilty or responsible of what ever she has in her brain or her unresolved issues. Let her go, she will be back later on, you just get another girl because there are millions who are awesome out there.

    Be cool, island style, take no prisoners.
  25. glocke12 macrumors 6502a


    Jan 7, 2008
    dont be needy, dont be whiny...and don't pine. no woman on earth is worth going through hell over. there are a million girls out there to choose from.

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