What is people's opinion on whether to get an ipad for Christmas or wait until early next year for the 2nd gen?
I would love to have one under the tree this year but I don't want to have one under the tree again until 2013 and I feel if I buy now it may not be the case
Christmas 2013 is 4 "under the trees" away. If that's really how you feel, I would say wait a few months for the 2nd gen iPad.
I've already sold mine to get the best price before word leaks out that this will be a short product cycle. All indicators I've seen point towards a 2nd gen iPad fairly soon. If not I'm still fine with waiting. If you haven't bought one yet, then I highly suggest waiting. Every time I've bought a 2nd gen Apple product it's been far better than the original.