That doesn't do what I'm asking, but thanks for trying. Here's a little excersize so maybe you can understand what I'm, in a very poor way, trying to explain:
Take two folders on your mac that are set to the default view (we'll call them Documents and Movies). Show view options for Movies and mess with the settings. Change the icon size, grid size, text size, lable position, etc. Now open your Documents' view options and mess with it (but in a different way so it doesn't look like your Movies folder's options). Make Documents view options the default by pressing the button. Oh! You like those options! You want Movies to adopt your Documents folder's new view options as its own. Pressing the button would only make the Movies folder view options the default, not change them to reflect your Documents folder's new settings that you want for your Movies. So far as I can see, the only way to make your Movies folder to reflect your default (Documents) view options is to manually change them to be the same or not change them in the first place (oops, we did though). Pre-Leopard there were radio buttons that let you mess with both the All Windows (Default) view options and that particular window's as well as switch back and forth between the two easily.