To OP: no and no (again)
but I have to say I use to think the idea of video phone calling was stupid and I would never want to be bothered with having to look at the phone while I use it. But it did occur to me that a useful value added way to do this would be to make the video window of the caller very small, like early days of the internet yahoo webcam small, in the top right corner or middle top of the screen. Then have the rest of the screen be a sort of white board where you can add urls or photos from your albums. Maybe even play mp3s or link to youtube. This would be cool. I wonder if we will see such a thing and if Apple will do it first and do it right.
The End.