Children have the right to have a male and a female parent. I'm not saying that heterosexual parents are automatically good for kids, because that is not true, but what is true is that same sex parents could not provide the necessary psychological male/female role models for young children, even if they wanted to because they will be by definition the same sex.
By endorsing 'same sex marriages' the concept of a male and female role model being necessary for a healthy upbringing is implicitly recognised as not necessary. This is the real harm. So it makes it even more difficult than it already is to undo much of the damage that has been allowed to happen.
Children should be taught toleration for the lifestyle that people choose to live, including homosexual couples however they should also be told that it is not condoned as a healthy psychological choice.
Children have the right to parents that love them. I said this earlier in the thread, but I'll say it again. Can we stop focusing on
who the parents are, and instead focus on
how good they are?
I have two children - two healthy, happy, intelligent, loving children. They have plenty of male influences that surround them. 3 Grandfathers (though, one has since passed away), 2 uncles, many cousins, and many of my own friends.
Having 2 parents doesn't automatically equate into good parenting. Having a male influence doesn't autmotically equate into being a good influence. If Casey Anthony gets married and has another child, do you honestly believe that her kids are better off than mine? That's one example, of course - but raising children isn't something that should be generalized. And there are a million examples of bad parenting coming from heterosexual families. There are also a million examples of children being hurt by divorce. Why not campaign against divorce?
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Anyone can go find a statistic to fit the bill. If they are for it, why arent they voting for it on the ballots? Seems if 51% were for it, they would have also voted for it.
How about you forfeit health care and tax incentives? Then we will see how bad you want marriage.
In the November elections, all 4 states that had it on the ballot voted for it.
Times, they are a changing....