Some chick wants me to go bra shopping with her. good or bad? (im straight)

killswitch1698 · Oct 23, 2009, 11:20 AM

One of my friends friends asked me if I wanted to go bra shopping. Is that a Bad thing? or what?

P.S: Sorry this may seem like i don't have a lot of experience with girls but i have never been asked this.

r.j.s · Oct 23, 2009, 11:22 AM

Go for it.

Giggity.

-Ryan- · Oct 23, 2009, 11:24 AM

I think this is a pretty sure sign of being in the 'friend zone'. So if you ever thought you had a chance with this girl, it's now effectively gone. On the other hand, she does trust you enough as a friend to go underwear shopping with you.

dmr727 · Oct 23, 2009, 11:25 AM

I think it means you're in the friend zone, but hell, go for it!

fungus · Oct 23, 2009, 11:31 AM

I think the whole 'friend zone' thing depends on how close you are to begin with. He said she's a friend of a friend, so I'm inclined to think she might be hitting on him... or screwing with him. Either way, OP, what would it hurt to go?

Raid · Oct 23, 2009, 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by fungus

I think the whole 'friend zone' thing depends on how close you are to begin with. He said she's a friend of a friend, so I'm inclined to think she might be hitting on him... or screwing with him. Either way, OP, what would it hurt to go?

^ +1

Either way this would probably be a good flirting opportunity for you. Just leave any stinky trout you may have at home.

cjacks68 · Oct 23, 2009, 11:40 AM

Does she know for a fact that you're not gay? Just making sure.

Bostonaholic · Oct 23, 2009, 11:40 AM

Friend zone or not, make sure you grab those suckers... you know, to test the bra's ability to hold those things of course.

+1 giggity

Teh Don Ditty · Oct 23, 2009, 11:54 AM

You will go bra shopping with her or I will internet punch you in the junk.

Seriously though, do it.

DO IT!

MikhailT · Oct 23, 2009, 11:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by killswitch1698

One of my friends friends asked me if I wanted to go bra shopping. Is that a Bad thing? or what?

P.S: Sorry this may seem like i don't have a lot of experience with girls but i have never been asked this.

The fact that you're asking means that you don't know the full extension of the relationship between you and her. Going bra shopping can be three or four things in the end; she considers you as a friend, a friend with benefits, flirting with you to see your reaction for relationship, or trying to gain some kind of information from you that may not be for mating reasons or friendship.

IBradMac · Oct 23, 2009, 12:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by killswitch1698

One of my friends friends asked me if I wanted to go bra shopping. Is that a Bad thing? or what?

P.S: Sorry this may seem like i don't have a lot of experience with girls but i have never been asked this.

Well it isn't exactly panty shopping, which would be ideal.

But you gotta take what whatcha can.

leekohler · Oct 23, 2009, 12:04 PM

She considers you a friend. That's it. But go bra shopping anyway.

whooleytoo · Oct 23, 2009, 12:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by killswitch1698

One of my friends friends asked me if I wanted to go bra shopping. Is that a Bad thing? or what?

P.S: Sorry this may seem like i don't have a lot of experience with girls but i have never been asked this.

Go. If she pulls the curtain across, and you're on the outside of the changing stall.. then poo..

If you're on the inside... giggity!

savar · Oct 23, 2009, 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by dmr727

I think it means you're in the friend zone, but hell, go for it!

If she's going to be modeling the bras for him, then she either sees him as COMPLETELY harmless (i.e. gay or way under her league) or she wants him and this is a bold come-on.

Definitely not a "neutral friend" kind of thing though.

Teh Don Ditty · Oct 23, 2009, 12:08 PM

^I agree.

Support the tata's.

rdowns · Oct 23, 2009, 12:14 PM

Do you normally need help in finding the right bra?

scotty96LSC · Oct 23, 2009, 12:20 PM

The latest iPod Nano should be a staple on this trip.

whooleytoo · Oct 23, 2009, 12:20 PM

Oh, and I hate to bring up a potentially sensitive topic, but did she definitely make clear she wanted to go bra shopping, for her?

(I'm not sexist! Moobies are boobies too, you know..)

yg17 · Oct 23, 2009, 12:24 PM

Post pix plz kthxbye

Nuck81 · Oct 23, 2009, 12:24 PM

go, and take your camera.....

Unspoken Demise · Oct 23, 2009, 12:27 PM

Slap her with a trout and eat her veggies.

Wait, wrong thread.

Xavier · Oct 23, 2009, 12:27 PM

friend zone!

MasterDev · Oct 23, 2009, 12:28 PM

Totally in the friend zone...

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MacNut · Oct 23, 2009, 12:30 PM

Of course you go, friend zone or not who cares. Maybe even pick some stuff out that you think would look good on her.

whooleytoo · Oct 23, 2009, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Unspoken Demise

Slap her with a trout and eat her veggies.

Kids these days and their jargon... Back in my day, we'd just ask if she wanted a "coffee", and everyone knew what you meant...

p.s. to the OP, remember those shops can be very brightly lit. I strongly recommend a good pair of shades.

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-Ryan- macrumors 68000 Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: UK	I think this is a pretty sure sign of being in the 'friend zone'. So if you ever thought you had a chance with this girl, it's now effectively gone. On the other hand, she does trust you enough as a friend to go underwear shopping with you.
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dmr727 macrumors G3 Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Southern California	I think it means you're in the friend zone, but hell, go for it!
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cjacks68 macrumors regular Join Date: May 2009	Does she know for a fact that you're not gay? Just making sure.
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Teh Don Ditty macrumors G4 Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Maryland	You will go bra shopping with her or I will internet punch you in the junk. Seriously though, do it. DO IT!
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leekohler Banned Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Chicago, Illinois	She considers you a friend. That's it. But go bra shopping anyway.
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Teh Don Ditty macrumors G4 Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Maryland	^I agree. Support the tata's.
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whooleytoo macrumors 603 Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Cork, Ireland.	Oh, and I hate to bring up a potentially sensitive topic, but did she definitely make clear she wanted to go bra shopping, for her? (I'm not sexist! Moobies are boobies too, you know..) __________________ Mac <- Macintosh <- McIntosh apples <- John McIntosh <- McIntosh surname <- "Mac an toshach" <- "Son of the Chief"
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Xavier macrumors 68020 Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Columbus	friend zone!
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MasterDev Banned Join Date: Sep 2009	Totally in the friend zone...
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