reh said:
This may seem obvious... but be sure to turn off the computer before installing the card. It would probably be somewhat exciting if you don't, but I suspect your girlfriend might not like it much.
Also add to that list unplugg the computer from the wall before you open it up. It just good pratices plus even with the computer off there is still standby power going to the mobo so there is still a charge there. Good idea is to just unplug from the wall and the eithernet cord is unplug since both are always suppliing a little power.
After that before you touch anything make sure any LED lights on the mobo are off. Normall a mobo has some led light on it telling you that the board has power and it will stay light until the compactiors in the board are discharged (about 30 sec or so).
As for putting in a pci card open up the case, removed the card from the tower matching the slot you are going to put it in. This gaurd can either be one that will require a screw to be removed, or more than likely it is one that just has to be punch out.
From put the pci card in the slot with firm pressure but gental pressure. After you have it in I recoment you go a little pushing all the way down the card to make sure it is in place evenly. Then take you will need a screw to screw in the card to the case to make sure it doesnt moved.
Put the side of the case back on. Plug everything back in. Turn on the computer.
Boot up going to take a little longer than normal because both windows and the mobo will dected teh new hardware in there. Windows will see it pretty quickly and you may not even need to install the drivers for it (still a good idea since windows drivers are ment to just get it working. They are not opitmized for the card. those the maker of the card should supply. install them. Maybe another reboot and you are good.
As for transfer taking a while it could just be because the USB ports on you GF computer are USB 1.1 and not USB 2.0. I know windows will tell you if you plug in any device into a 1.1 slot that can go faster on a 2.0.
All that being side the entire process from turning off the computer to having everything install should take less than 30 mins even if you are a complete noob to it. It really a very easy thing to do. I spend more time unplug and plugging everything back in than I do putting in the card.