How is one thing related to the other? There is no wrong doing unless Apple doing what the industry already did is suddenly wrong doing, they're simply beating everyone else at the industry game.
Also your example doesn't stand even with this view as there no services being denied or being tiered.
There's a business using money to be more attractive to customers and business unable to do the same.
Also businesses like Netflix probably pay more not for bandwidth but for the network reliability.
You're still off track. Look up net neutrality. I'm too tired to give a long explanation.