I see. That's a good looking case. What I've found is that every case will have something wrong with it. If you decide to give it a try, you could always try to reinforce the kickstand somehow so that it's sturdier.
I with you on protecting the ipad from keys and such in one's handbag. I'm using a smart cover and a the zum sc ultimate back plate because it locks the smart cover on and keeps it from falling off in my travels.
Please post your thoughts about the xGear case if you get it.