I am pissed now, cause if this trojan virus is slowly destroying my i Macs life,
You don't have a trojan or virus. Your email account password was hacked, so a spammer is sending emails using your account, or your email address is being
spoofed. Neither have anything to do with your computer or malware. Change your email password to something complex, using numbers, special characters and upper and lower case letters.
Macs are not immune to malware, but no true viruses exist in the wild that can run on Mac OS X, and there never have been any since it was released over 10 years ago. You cannot infect your Mac simply by visiting a website, unzipping a file, opening an email attachment or joining a network. The only malware in the wild that can affect Mac OS X is a handful of trojans, which cannot infect your Mac unless you actively install them, and they can be easily avoided with some basic education, common sense and care in what software you install. Also, Mac OS X Snow Leopard and Lion have
anti-malware protection built in, further reducing the need for 3rd party antivirus apps.