no specific foods can be "bad" although they can be worse than others.
i think when it comes to things like bread or fatty meats, they should be consumed in moderation.
first order effect to keep in mind, as always, is the second law of thermodynamics; that is, if you consume more calories than you spend, then you will gain fat.
second order effect is subtle (or not so subtle) effects that your metabolism and hunger can be regulated by your body's various mechanisms, such as insulin, glucagon, cortisol, leptin, etc which are all modulated by various extrinsic factors such as sugar intake, exercise, your build, sleep schedule, relative composition of macronutrients, micronutrients, etc (in addition to, obviously, your genetics).
however, it is not easy to control the secondary effects that control your metabolism and hunger, and as such it is better to stick to first order effect and try to keep in mind that good sleep schedule, lower stress, lower fatty foods, lower amounts of processed carbs will all contribute to your ability to lose weight and build muscle.
really appreciate all the support!
I've manned up and started going to the gym after work. I avoided the gym for a long time due to anxiety of going at busy times, but now I've started going at peak times I've realised there's nothing to be scared of!
Haven't got a workout routine yet, just been walking a lot on tread mill with an incline and using some of the weight machines.
Also trying to eat healthier, bought a chicken pasta/salad thing for dinner yesterday, but i simply couldn't eat anymore than the chunks of chicken, and then went to kfc to eat something that would give me energy for the gym (with work I am almost always forced to eat takeaways and ready meals)
I've realised my diet is the biggest issue. I'm just a fussy eater and find it hard to consume unfamiliar foods. Would a nutritionalist help me with this do you think?
you should be sure to include simple workouts like squat, bench and deadlifts.
these workouts burn lots of calories and will build muscle throughout your body and are efficient ways to lose fat, as you will burn calories (first order effect) and also increase your metabolism via muscle buildup.
in addition, these routines can give you positive mental feedback since you will see the weights go up every time in the beginning.
check out Stronglifts (i'm not affiliated with them).