You shouldn't tell anyone not to share icloud accounts if there's a use-case for it. My wife and I share icloud accounts so we can share purchases (why should we have to pay for apps twice if we both want it), share the same icloud backup storage space (we each go over the free 5GB so why pay for extra space on two accounts when sharing is less expensive) and, most importantly, we share the same photo stream so that we can see each other's pictures when we take pictures of our newborn.
You are wrong.
My family and I share an
itunes account to share purchases. That's the account we all use to sign into the app store and itunes store with.
iCloud accounts are different. If my family and I shared those, we would all have the same contacts, tasks, calendars and imessage. It would be horrible.
There is no use case for spouses to share icloud account unless they want to have a joint account where they receive each other's imessages, share every single to do list, and every single calendar appointment.
there's a reason why apple let's you use two apple id's on your phone. one for purchases (app store/itunes), and one for iCloud.
lastly, apple introduced family sharing with iOS 8. You and your wife can now use completely different apple ids for everything (itunes, app store, AND icloud) and as long as the credit cards match, you won't pay for something twice.
You said "You shouldn't tell anyone not to share icloud accounts"
Well, I'm going to tell you that you really shouldn't tell anyone to share icloud accounts unless you have a better idea of what that means.
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Updated to IOS 8 last night and just realized that when someone calls my wife, my phone rings too and visa versa.
I checked Settings, Phone and we have different numbers. Call forwarding is off. I can call her and she can call me. But, when either of us are dialed, they both go off. We are with ATT on a shared account. Any ideas??
please see my above post.
do not share an icloud account with your wife.
you can use the same account to buy things from app store and itunes store, but you should have a separate icloud account from her.