A follow up!
Ok, I finally got everything working for me over here.
Regarding getting registered on netkas's forums? I still have no clue why it refused to send the activation email to my primary email address (an old Southwestern Bell email; @swbell.net account). I told it to resend at least 5 times and nothing, not even in their junk folder. So I finally tried again with an alternate gmail address of mine, and that one worked!
Once I got over THAT hurdle, I browsed the site until I found a post from someone else with a 1GB XFX branded 6870 card, purchased around the same time-frame as mine, who uploaded a modified BIOS with EFI already added to it. I downloaded that one and took a chance flashing my card with it. Success! (I know they kept warning people not to do it this way, since each BIOS might have different little changes in it for the particular components used on different cards. But I had zero luck getting any utilities to merge the EFI code I downloaded in with the dumps I made of my card's original BIOS -- so this was my last resort.)
I'm only using 1 display via DVI connector on the bottom DVI port of the card, but I get an OS X boot screen, Apple DVD Player launches fine, Steam games play fine, etc. I'm happy!
Thanks for the info, MacVidCards. That's helpful to know ....
I still have a few questions though.
1. Why was DVD Player still crashing on me when I tried to use the 6870 card with Lion 10.7.2 without any modifications? Is that something that worked with 10.7.1 and then broke with the .2 update and is not yet fixed/fixable?
2. I tried to go to netkas's site last night and download his EFI firmware to paste in, but found the file attachments on the forum didn't seem to be accessible unless I was a registered user there. Well, I tried to register and the site would never send me the activation email (even checked my spam folders)!