Hmmmm... online dating services....
I am partially against them because so many needy people use them. People who are unhappy who think having a significant other will turn their life around. I'm a firm believer that you can't find true happiness in a relationship, you have to correct the other things in your life that are making you unhappy yourself. Once your happy then a relationship is a very healthy thing to have, I think. But so many people go to those sites because they feel they need a relationship, and that they can't be happy till they get one, and that results in unhealthy relationships.
But, having said that, I met Lee on MR, and I think we make a damn good couple . But neither of us had the intention of finding a romantic partner when we joined the site . And we also were very clear with each other before meeting that we weren't going to meet each other with any expectations. If sparks fly then they fly, if they don't they don't. Sparks flew .
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I am partially against them because so many needy people use them. People who are unhappy who think having a significant other will turn their life around. I'm a firm believer that you can't find true happiness in a relationship, you have to correct the other things in your life that are making you unhappy yourself. Once your happy then a relationship is a very healthy thing to have, I think. But so many people go to those sites because they feel they need a relationship, and that they can't be happy till they get one, and that results in unhealthy relationships.
But, having said that, I met Lee on MR, and I think we make a damn good couple . But neither of us had the intention of finding a romantic partner when we joined the site . And we also were very clear with each other before meeting that we weren't going to meet each other with any expectations. If sparks fly then they fly, if they don't they don't. Sparks flew .
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