Yeah, there's no socket and Ive wouldn't be involved in that in the first place, but points for effort.
Youve concluded that its easy, so I can only assume youve conducted a thorough literature review of DRAM technology, an audit of available parts, a channel check, and a comprehensive engineering analysis of the iPhone and can recommend a suitable part or propose a superior design to accommodate your preferred part. Wed all be very interested in seeing your report.
Give me a second. It's weekend here. I have a busy Sunday but if you don't mind I will call my friends at Xiaomi, Sony, LG, Samsung, One plus One, etc, to send me a copy of their analysis, since they seem to have figured it out somewhat.