Read this, trust me... (not just a re-hash)
Ok, I know that this horse has been beaten well enough, but after reading the WHOLE thread for the first time, I see MAJOR FACTORS in this whole situation.
Let me start with a question that I'm surprised no one has asked yet... if you work (or even used to work) at MacMedia, an authorized Apple Reseller and
Service Provider, then why on earth would you have not handled the repair/repair estimate with
them instead of talking to some unknown clerk at an Apple store?!? I don't understand your logic in this.
Sorry if I sound harsh, as I was on your side when I started on page one, but after reading the whole story, I am now on the seller's side, even though I do feel that it was all
originally on the seller's shoulders. You did in fact make a huge mess of things by not following the proper protocol through
any of the process, even after you were told specifically by people here to follow these protocols
to the letter.
You initiated an insurance claim based on a repair amount that pretty much came out of your head, based on DIY labor, and lied to the seller about it. ( read
posts 162 and 168 ) You told the seller "repair(s)", not 'parts'. You admittedly lied to the seller about actually going to the Apple store, as well as being
very misleading about the quote... You told
us that you got the cost of a case, you told
him you got the cost of repairs. If you had in fact initiated a
repair claim with UPS, you screwed him royally, and nowhere do I see any proof that the claim filed with UPS was anything
less than a repair claim. He may or may not have been able to fix your screwup.
Let's be clear and realistic in this. Businesses only care about protocols, documents, and facts in these situations, all of which are missing in this case. Look at this carefully, because his giving you a full refund
now means that
HE would be out the $1500+, PLUS the cost of repairs that could now come out of
his pocket as a result of
your lies even though he had insurance in place to protect BOTH of you. Put yourself in his shoes, because you sure didn't like it when YOU were out the $$$ with a damaged Mac any more than he does now. Had you returned it right away, or at least gotten an ACTUAL repair estimate and followed protocol, there would have been NO PROBLEM FOR EITHER OF YOU.
Apart from this, you wanted the seller to make the repairs himself, keeping the UPS claim at the DIY, made-up amount that you had given them. In other words, you wanted
him to risk having an unreliable machine by doing the repairs himself, even though
you weren't willing to take that risk yourself. Sorry to have to say it, but this is inconsiderate and self-centered of you.
Chalk this up to a lesson learned, and remember that you are not the only person that matters in a transaction, and that a problem does not automatically make the seller evil. He did, after all, refund you $850
after the Paypal dispute expired, (also your fault, which you admit) so I'm willing to bet he would have refunded the whole amount had you not made a mess of it.